i come to realise that.... being nice... can really be a bad thing sometimes:
when someone asks whether he/she could borrow your book....being a nice one, you lend your book to him/her. and that'll be the last time you'll ever see your book again. same goes to pencils, cds and especially your MONEY!
when someone asks you a favor....being a nice one, you try to help him/her in any possible way...and from there, he/she will take the advantage of that and wil FOREVER ask you a favor everytime! he/she wil use you...eventho you dun have enough time for yourself!
when someone asks you for a ride...being the nice one, you'll drive alllll the way to his/her house. from there, he/she will use you to take him/her here, there, everywhere! and wil most likely to ask you for anoder ride for the rest of your life, despite that he/she already have his/her driver's licence!
and when you're the nice one, people tend to think that it is ok 2 step all over you, askin ridiculous favors from you, becos they think that u're too nice to b angry at them
i get that alot these days. i guess that's wat happen when you're the nice one, huh?
i guess i gotta learn how to be selfish at times too...
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